Where do I sit with work right now?
I’m so glad you asked because it’s been on my mind for a while. I work in aviation, a very heavily regulated industry. If I make a crucial mistake at work, I can go to prison for negligence or manslaughter. There aren’t many jobs like that hey?
I am the youngest person in my department by at least 5 years and am at the absolute bottom of the totem pole. The other apprentices have prior experience as opposed to me, whose fresh out of college. Not many people get to work with a company the size of mine right after college, in fact aviation is a very tough industry to get into/through. While going to school I was working part/full time in another department of the same company so as soon as I graduated I got hired with my current department.
Being the youngest member of my team is definitely interesting. People often compliment how I was able to determine my life path at such an early age. At work everyone picks on me and jokes around with me. At the same time, when it comes down to work… I am expected to perform. The only thing an employer looks at when hiring a recent graduate is his/her attitude. I have always been an optimistic, driven, self motivated and enthusiastic young man and I still am. I have a good attitude but still have a long ways to go to become a competent engineer.
You know what my biggest fear at work is? Being told that I’m incompetent. I’m absolutely terrified of being told that and it has honestly kept me up at nights. I put a lot of pressure on myself to impress my supervisors of my abilities. I tried to make up for my lack of experience by trying to take on bigger jobs and I thought it showed that I was trying to take initiative. But after a sit down with a mentor, I realized that by wanting to get the bigger jobs, I had made a minor error on the smaller, more monotonous job. I seemed to be more careless than showing initiative. In the sit down I admitted to my mistake and assured my supervisor of an action plan. Just as I felt that I was headed in the right direction, 2 days later I made the same mistake.
Being told you’re the exact opposite of your intentions never sits right. I am really hard on myself, always have been. I am told that it’s not good to pressure myself so much but it’s by being hard on myself that I have pulled through and accomplished greater things. So making the same mistake twice has made me quite upset as I’m unsure of how I’ll bounce back. It’s not like I don’t believe in myself. I see myself as the underdog. It’s just hard to be confident knowing that you don’t know anything.
You see, an interesting thing about this world is that the mistakes you make have a heavier presence in defining you than the good that you do. I refuse to be defined by my failures but unfortunately, I am. I just want to prove my worth and show potential. I feel as though I have taken 2 steps back and now have to start from scratch to build my work rapport. My seniors advise me that If there is anytime to make minor mistakes, its as an apprentice. But I can’t accept making mistakes that could have been avoided If I followed my action plan. I am told to relax and not be too keen. To show a greater pride in my work, especially with the smaller tasks. That’s great advice that I am going to follow but I still have great uneasiness when I think about work and where I stand.
I might have brought down my reputation and let my colleagues down but whats worst is that I have let myself down. I have exposed and fed my fear of being incompetent.
I can tell myself that things will get better, that I will learn from my mistakes and show my seniors of my honest intentions and worth. But that’s all a bunch of Disneyland bs, I’m not like that. I won’t feel comfortable again until I actually do show my seniors my effort and improvement. Until then, I will have to live with the uneasiness.